Thursday, 20 March 2014

The Blue Print On Why Men Cheat.

 If there is one declaration most women have heard time and time again, it's that "men are weak". This useless piece of information has been passed down from our great grand mothers, mothers, aunts, older sisters, cousins to us. Ebrahim Aseem has however come out to say that it is more than being weak it also transcends to the big E word ego.
 He says:
"Let's be frank if a man wants to cheat he will. They don't even need an excuse nor will the biggest butt, longest hair or prettiest face persuade him to be faithful".
 Many men defend this by saying its in their genetics or they blame their women for not being there.
Infidelity is often times devastating to a relationship. Trust is lost, an overwhelming feeling of betrayal looms over every activity and that sense of intimacy you shared with that individual is questioned.
How a man treats a woman is not a reflection of her worth nor is it a reflection of anything she lacks or is not doing. An overly macho, mentally weak sensitive-minded male knows he does not deserve a strong minded woman. In his mind he thinks one day she will mentally awaken to the realization that she deserves better than him and leave him. That's why men cheat on a woman to have power over her. He cheats on her to boost his ego. Many males have very low self esteem. You can tell that's why he says " I only fuck bad bitches". He is saying this to convince himself, attempting to drown out his insecurities that are on repeat inside his own mind. By cheating on a good woman it makes a weak minded man think he has power over her. It makes him feel he is worth more than her and she will care for him more as a result. Most women are usually shocked that their men will even cheat with an ugly woman. This can be so insulting! Ask Halle Berry ALL her men have cheated, so its not about looks, weakness is in their genes!

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